Making It Happen
from DailyOm
There are times in our lives when all the signs seem to be pointing us in a particular direction. Our thoughts and dreams are echoed in the songs and stories we hear and the media we see. Maybe the message we are getting from the universe doesn’t even make sense in the “real” world, but somewhere inside, these urges feel right. Maybe you feel you are being told to move to a new city although your life where you are is just fine. Or maybe you feel the desire to pursue a new direction in your career when it never really interested you before. When we spend time getting in touch with our higher selves, our intuition sends us directives to lead us to become our best and most fulfilled selves. And when we are open and listening, the next step is to take action and go for it.
Once we make the decision to pursue our inner urgings, the universe sets into motion the means for all sorts of details to fall into place. A sense of peace will come over us, because we know that any questions will no longer make us wonder if our dreams are possible, but how to make them happen. Instead of deterring us from our goal, these questions only serve to clarify our focus to move us forward. We need not throw caution to the wind to follow our dream. The positive shift in our energy affects everything around us. Like a rush of water, it goes ahead to clear debris from our path so that we can go forward. Our new attitude also attracts likeminded people. Sometimes even the most unlikely angels arrive to help us along our way with the information and support we need.
Wherever your dreams are pointing you today, take a step. Take action and manifest your inner urges and soul whisperings.
She speaks of the loss of her father, and the legacy he left her in handwritten letters.
Very touching ~ Please enjoy
location: harrys bar and grill
pros:
pulled out my chair, paid for dinner, etc. he's a really nice guy, successful, smart, etc. he likes music and plays guitar, likes to snowboard. finishing up his double major in marketing and economics in spring. owns a business that's doing really well. it's totally clear that he likes me. he complimented the way i looked and my hair. he looked nice, was on time.
cons:
he's really intense and works like 7 days a week. he has ADHD and it's totally apparent. my brother does, so i can spot it a mile away. he says he has just started a prescription for it about a month ago. but sometimes he seems really scattered. the date ran really hot and cold for me. there were times when we were totally on the same page and we would click, and other times where he seemed off in left field. part of me chocks (sp?) that up to him being nervous. he asked questions about me here and there, but he seemed to really talk a lot about work and his business...maybe because that's what made him most comfortable? for the most part, there was good physical chemistry, although that ran hot and cold for me coinciding with the conversation running hot and cold.
red flag:
he's 25 years old and has never had an official girlfriend, his reasoning is that he's been so fixated on doing well in school and starting his business that it's just taken a back seat. he said that his business is nearly on autopilot and he feels like he can start dating, etc. i don't know how comfortable i am with this. i think the business would always come before a girl. we were making plans via text on saturday afternoon and i had an issue with one of my texts not going through, so as we were making plans, i started not hearing back from him. i automatically assumed i was having text issues. so i called instead and it went straight to voicemail. i thought maybe his phone went dead or something. turns out he was at work and something had come up and he just didn't respond. my question is why couldn't he have taken30 seconds to respond to my text and say "hey, i'm at work and things just got busy. i'll give you a call later". that's all it would've taken and i think that makes a bad impression and tells me that work comes first.
conclusion:
i think i might give him another opportunity. he has to initiate the date this time though. i kind of want to see if he can make an effort to make time for me. i think that talking about work for the majority of the time may have just been a little bit of nerves and i'll give him the benefit of the doubt on that. the whole never-having-an-actual-girlfriend thing kind of weirds me out a little though.
Learning the correct way to breathe deeply can make a total impact on your health and also help you lose weight. Breathing deeply is something that most of us never really think twice about but maybe it's time to focus on breathing and train ourselves to breathe properly. The beauty of retraining ourselves to breathe properly and implementing some easy breathing exercises into our daily routine is that in a rather short time, you will feel the difference and it's not that difficult. Let me explain. . . -- Simply lay down totally flat on your bed, your couch, or floor. Relax for a second or two before taking a deep breath. Now breathe in deep through your nose. Push your belly up while taking the air inside. Stick your chin on your chest and watch your belly rise. When you've got as much air as you can hold, stop and hold your breath. Try holding it for ten or twenty seconds. If you're like most people, you're dying to let it out at the end of the twenty seconds. Go ahead. Pitiful isn't it? Not only that, but did you feel your lungs stretching out? You don't feel that very often do you? It feels good and bad at the same time, right? That's because you're not used to it. -- Try it a couple of more times. It gets easier each time, right? Don't you feel relaxed and refreshed at the same time? Your body is saying thank you, thank you! Just that very tiny bit of deep breathing and your body feels better. This is an immediate reaction. Now, think about this and how it works. . ..that extra oxygen you allowed into your body is now moving through your bloodstream, slightly increasing your flow, and getting rid of excess waste and fat. All that in a matter of seconds! Makes sense doesn't it? Think about it... Oxygen is fuel for your body as is food. There are no calories in oxygen. You can breathe in all you want for as long as you want and still no calories! Not only that, but the extra oxygen you take in will cause the chemical reactions in your body to take place much faster, thus, you burn more calories than you take in. This in turn speeds up your metabolism and makes you burn more fat. There are many other benefits to making breathing deeply a part of your daily routine. They include improving your immune system, flushing out those unwanted toxins, makes your blood pressure rock steady, helps you sleep deeply like a baby, adds more oxygen in your body which increases your energy, and increases blood circulation. The list of benefits goes on and on. Clean and unpolluted oxygen is the key. -- Keep practicing. Get used to how deep breathing feels. Close your eyes and sense the rhythm of the deep breath you're taking. Memorize it. Now sit up. Again, try to accomplish the same deep breath while sitting up. Sit up straight. Start breathing in through your nose -then slowly stick your chin on top of your chest and watch your belly inflate with air. This may be a little harder because you might unconsciously revert back to shallow breathing. You'll know that this is true if your belly isn't inflating and you feel all the air in your lungs high in your chest. Don't give up. Concentrate on inflating your belly. Once filled as much as possible, hold it for twenty seconds and release through your mouth. You should practice sitting up and deep breathing a few times to get used to it. Now you can do it anywhere! You should, by now, have a real sense of how to breathe deep. Take a day or two and just practice the techniques (lying down and sitting up). After a day or two of practice, you're ready to make deep breathing a part of your daily program and routine.
- Mac 'n cheese & diet dr. pepper: breakfast of champion (me). I do have broccoli in the mac, plus an apple & a pomegranate. So delicious. #
- I want to read: Larry's Kidney by Daniel Asa Rose - bit.ly/3Lm5TE #
- I want to read: The Windup Girl by Paolo Bacigalupi - bit.ly/3BXSzo #
- I want to read: The City & The City by China Miéville - bit.ly/3LaZno #
- I want to read: Mennonite in a Little Black Dress by Rhoda Janzen - bit.ly/3GB5dx #
- I want to read: Where Men Win Glory by Jon Krakauer - bit.ly/16jRhY #
- for @sethew: bit.ly/2mniBt #
- I have big plans for catching up on NaNo, biking & doing some important things, but I suspect these plans will be dashed by a nap. #
- Resisting the consumerist urge. Going to go home and be productive instead. WHAT A GROWNUP. #
- 7695. But not done for the day, still -2445. Break time--no more screen face. I need to save up my screen time for Bioshock! #nanowrimo #
- Dear Bioshock, I am so excited to press " install". #
- I know I'm a noob but wow, is it hard to make games work on a PC. #
loudtwitter.com set all this up for me.
Quitting smoking may just be the hardest thing anyone will have to do in their life. It was definitely difficult for me. I took the hard-core, cold turkey route as opposed to using any stop smoking aids, but today those looking for relief and freedom from their nicotine addictions may not have to fight so hard. Nicocure is a new, all-natural stop smoking aid that claims anyone can quit smoking in 30 days or less. That certainly is quite a claim, but is it all just marketing hype and fluff? I am not 100% sure what to think about nicotine addiction. I quit smoking myself cold-turkey without the use of any stop smoking aids such as Nicocure. I felt that if my desire was truly strong enough that I would be able to overcome anything. It still took over 20 attempts even then. My own mother struggles with it daily and has tried to quit numerous times with a variety of methods. Maybe this really has nothing to do with willpower or desire, but instead we should recognize that this addiction is so powerful we could all use a little help. So where does one turn? Nicocure claims to have that answer. There are so many different products on the market today all claiming to help people quit smoking. This is definitely BIG business, but if these products all did what they claimed they could do, I do not think I would see so many people struggling. The developers of Nicocure would agree and they cite one major reason for the failure of these other products that really caught my attention. The two major types of stop smoking aids on the market today are gums and patches. According to Nicocure, the problem with all of them is that they contain nicotine. nicotine is the substance of the addiction in the first place so a serious question arises here. Is it beneficial to fight nicotine addiction with nicotine? Once you finish the gum or patch program what have you accomplished? It seems to me that you have accomplished nothing except keeping nicotine in your system. You get off the patch and the gum and you still have the same problem. Withdrawal is just around the corner. This is why Nicocure was developed and why it claims to make the difference that other products cannot. Nicocure patches offer what seems to be an effective and alternative to the nicotine-derived products we are so used to seeing today. As a 100% all-natural and herbal formula, Nicocure claims to mimic nicotine just enough, so that the brain is satisfied, while the body completely removes the addictive chemical from its system. It allows your brain to continue releasing dopamine just as it did while you smoked. The point here is that you will be able to rid your body of that nasty nicotine chemical without having to go through the physical and psychological anguish that causes so many to fail early on. So the question remains...does it actually work? Nicocure wants to put this question to rest, so they offer a guarantee. If Nicocure does not help eliminate your cravings for nicotine, and end your smoking habit permanently within 30 days of purchase, they will refund 100% of your money. As always I remain skeptical, but I also know how much easier my battle could have been if Nicocure was available at the time. With the dangers of nicotine so great, and the benefits of quitting so numerous, this is a guarantee I would be willing to accept, and one I will be introducing to my mother.
- I vote against opening the blinds for Ashton! Mostly because you can't vote against the sun, because it doesn't care either way. #
loudtwitter.com set all this up for me.
Leaving the Hospital
I am climbing the golden stairway of my hair
to the sweet hereafter
a flute is playing and I wonder if it is real
music of heaven and I am deceased
my legs somewhat numb
but no, I see the flautist in his tuxedo
I half expect him to have donkey ears
but he does not, so he is really here
my companion assures me of his reality
and the reality of the music
and that in fact I am alive
and that the baby in the car-seat
is our own baby with her thin patch
of red hair and her white knit bonnet
looking like a child of another era
an error of the anachronism the car-seat
and the shiny white hospital lobby floor
The flautist plays his Caliendo concerto
number whatever
inspired by Corot's gypsy painting
I will lay in the night later
with no guitar
only the baby and her face
pale as a moon
against my pale as moon breast
Lucy Simpson, Seattle, 11/5/2009
guess who has a date on saturday?
this girl. glad i sent him a text.